Monday, October 20, 2008
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
My child and 100 steps dads
I thought it's important to come back to writing as soon as I could because I was losing sanity due to these never ending chores of life. I mean I was so happy I had started my blog months back I made a promise I will pull a publicity campaign that will have readers clicking away on my blogg to comment on my so called interesting writables. Huh...trust me on that. A million things have happened since my last blog post. I have read so much, seen enough and lived through it all I should admit and I have this to begin with...
My child and 100 step dads. Yes...I know what you are thinking. 100 step dads, what on earth is that?
Well it all started when I realised that I joke more often than not when ever I went out with friends I usually bragged about meeting my future ex-girlfriend where ever we were going. Not realising that the casual statement had more life than the Zimbabwean government wish it could ever have. I am single today and I owe it to no one but my self.
I have since realised from my last proper relationship there are too many things that seem not to permit natural, mutual so called real relationships. When you are involved with someone you have no idea whats going on out side. When you then come out if thats the word, you then realise that things have long changed. Dating has since siezed to exist if its still does the dating curve is so short you might actually never remember your first kiss or like many you first kisses.
One thing I will teach my child if by fate I must have one is to learn and understand that life is ruthless, emotion filled nonsense that drives you to the core of your sanity wrinkled in books, violence,sex and finally death prosperity goes through all but stays in non. This is why man without divine belief have everything but them selves in short are vain. Right, enough about theologies and anthropologies back to my child. Because of the real mutual crisis that has eaten up mankind I have prepared my self for the worst when it comes to parenting because I have since realised one can never be good enough to stay in your life or the opposite. This world is stewing up more mutual confusion divorce is now a thing of the past. Its not about how long you stay in a marriage but how many you almost went in and how many you are trying to stay out of.
Which then gets to my child's 100 step dads issue. How many ex-girlfriends I have has become a reality of how many step-fathers my child might have today. I keep landing a role were I play the father, boyfriend, sex slave e.t.c in most of the women or should I say girls I date. I am not so sure if I have such a horrible choice when it comes to women or really I need to changes my policies (which are accepting the fact that women now can drink as much as we do, stay out all night, go home usually after midnight, can go partying six days a week coz on the seventh she will be nursing a hangover, have more male friends than the whole Facebook and My Space put together and they know all their phone numbers by head, and are willing to engage in all life endangering things their fathers and mothers never dreamt of doing coz they fear life span in now too short, and when it comes to sex are willing to fuck you numb coz they want to feel liberated as the doer than the done on) which I know dont work all the time but relationships have become really complicated such that its not about if we break, its when we break up.
And this I believe is going to my divorce issue I mentioned earlier that if most relationships have stories like this at dating stages what will change them as they mature. I think it will most definately crack into the matrimonial tree and decay love will if at all it still exists but my fear is if oil is feared to be finishing threatening the world to a possible stand still as we know everything needs fossil fuel we might as well start looking for the "Green Earth solution" that looks at what ever is going wrong with relationships because if we dont "yes my child is heading for a 100 step dads.
Catch you on the next one.
H
My child and 100 step dads. Yes...I know what you are thinking. 100 step dads, what on earth is that?
Well it all started when I realised that I joke more often than not when ever I went out with friends I usually bragged about meeting my future ex-girlfriend where ever we were going. Not realising that the casual statement had more life than the Zimbabwean government wish it could ever have. I am single today and I owe it to no one but my self.
I have since realised from my last proper relationship there are too many things that seem not to permit natural, mutual so called real relationships. When you are involved with someone you have no idea whats going on out side. When you then come out if thats the word, you then realise that things have long changed. Dating has since siezed to exist if its still does the dating curve is so short you might actually never remember your first kiss or like many you first kisses.
One thing I will teach my child if by fate I must have one is to learn and understand that life is ruthless, emotion filled nonsense that drives you to the core of your sanity wrinkled in books, violence,sex and finally death prosperity goes through all but stays in non. This is why man without divine belief have everything but them selves in short are vain. Right, enough about theologies and anthropologies back to my child. Because of the real mutual crisis that has eaten up mankind I have prepared my self for the worst when it comes to parenting because I have since realised one can never be good enough to stay in your life or the opposite. This world is stewing up more mutual confusion divorce is now a thing of the past. Its not about how long you stay in a marriage but how many you almost went in and how many you are trying to stay out of.
Which then gets to my child's 100 step dads issue. How many ex-girlfriends I have has become a reality of how many step-fathers my child might have today. I keep landing a role were I play the father, boyfriend, sex slave e.t.c in most of the women or should I say girls I date. I am not so sure if I have such a horrible choice when it comes to women or really I need to changes my policies (which are accepting the fact that women now can drink as much as we do, stay out all night, go home usually after midnight, can go partying six days a week coz on the seventh she will be nursing a hangover, have more male friends than the whole Facebook and My Space put together and they know all their phone numbers by head, and are willing to engage in all life endangering things their fathers and mothers never dreamt of doing coz they fear life span in now too short, and when it comes to sex are willing to fuck you numb coz they want to feel liberated as the doer than the done on) which I know dont work all the time but relationships have become really complicated such that its not about if we break, its when we break up.
And this I believe is going to my divorce issue I mentioned earlier that if most relationships have stories like this at dating stages what will change them as they mature. I think it will most definately crack into the matrimonial tree and decay love will if at all it still exists but my fear is if oil is feared to be finishing threatening the world to a possible stand still as we know everything needs fossil fuel we might as well start looking for the "Green Earth solution" that looks at what ever is going wrong with relationships because if we dont "yes my child is heading for a 100 step dads.
Catch you on the next one.
H
Friday, March 14, 2008
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Friday, March 7, 2008
The world has ended
There is a guy in Florida, United States claiming to be Jesus. If you know your Bible well in Revelations something is mentioned about the coming of Christ as the end of days. So if this guy is saying he Jesus so the world must be finished. Well I don't believe he is Jesus. Oil is still pumping in the Gulf, States is still a super power, Mugabe still hates Walter and Tony, the Janjaweed are still ruling Dafur so please please spare us with that blasphemy.
But one thing I think is rather true is that the world is finished. We are basically scavenging the cacus of life which is basic virtual reality were robots can play football, cars drive themselves, fridges can shop for you and morality is a fossil some where on the earths crust. You might be asking yourself now whether you have heard this before. Of course you have. You see it on T.V everyday were people get richer by showing more flesh in front on a million viewers, you read it in newspapers that every six minutes a woman is raped in South Africa if not slaughtered by some ignorant male who thinks hIS penile member is a projectile meant to knock whatever idiotic sense into poor females.
The world is gone, but as human beings our nature is to deny, deny and deny. I have lived in a society were if the wife is not feeling active enough to do her matrimonial God given conjugal rights she sends the house maid to do that for her. Imagine the shock on the poor girls face after working for two weeks she is told get into the bedroom papa needs a sexual fix I'm tired today. What if the girl is married and has a loving husband at home and kids, ok lets say what if she has Aids, what then happens to the family? Don't you even think about saying they use protection that's enough manure a bull can give you.
What more can I say.. Oh I know remember the Mugabe hates Walter and Tony I mentioned earlier it makes sense its politics you talk dirt about my people and my country I have the right to hate you kind of thing but check this out. What about a brother born off the same mother with his younger brother but hates him so much he would let him starve to death. I think because the world has virtually ended people don't see evil right in their face, because its comes in smaller portion like racism, tribalism, segregation, favouratism and so on. But all these things have one common mother, Evil. And when Evil (with a capital letter "E") rules good is gone, the world is gone. Thats it.
But one thing I think is rather true is that the world is finished. We are basically scavenging the cacus of life which is basic virtual reality were robots can play football, cars drive themselves, fridges can shop for you and morality is a fossil some where on the earths crust. You might be asking yourself now whether you have heard this before. Of course you have. You see it on T.V everyday were people get richer by showing more flesh in front on a million viewers, you read it in newspapers that every six minutes a woman is raped in South Africa if not slaughtered by some ignorant male who thinks hIS penile member is a projectile meant to knock whatever idiotic sense into poor females.
The world is gone, but as human beings our nature is to deny, deny and deny. I have lived in a society were if the wife is not feeling active enough to do her matrimonial God given conjugal rights she sends the house maid to do that for her. Imagine the shock on the poor girls face after working for two weeks she is told get into the bedroom papa needs a sexual fix I'm tired today. What if the girl is married and has a loving husband at home and kids, ok lets say what if she has Aids, what then happens to the family? Don't you even think about saying they use protection that's enough manure a bull can give you.
What more can I say.. Oh I know remember the Mugabe hates Walter and Tony I mentioned earlier it makes sense its politics you talk dirt about my people and my country I have the right to hate you kind of thing but check this out. What about a brother born off the same mother with his younger brother but hates him so much he would let him starve to death. I think because the world has virtually ended people don't see evil right in their face, because its comes in smaller portion like racism, tribalism, segregation, favouratism and so on. But all these things have one common mother, Evil. And when Evil (with a capital letter "E") rules good is gone, the world is gone. Thats it.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
The Mac craze..a gimmick?
Its not like I am hater or anything but I usually have a fear when the world goes crazy about a product the way people have done about the Mac. Its like the best thing after sliced bread I tell you. Every jack and jill talks about it. I think Mac pulled of the marketing gimmick of the century with this product but I really wonder if it really leaves guys like PC in the dust and for how long.
I use Mac and PC o daily basis and I say its a matter of what you are comfortable with depending on how you want to be seen doing it, because with design programs you cannot tell if something was designed on a Mac or PC. If you are good you are good whatever application you use its just that Mac is more of a fashion statement more than anything and you know what they say about fashion its..it comes then goes. Its just my thot.
Welcome my world of silent justice
You might wonder what on earth I am on about creating a blog with silence this... silent that. Its just that when I was growing up my grand-dad always insisted that silence if used with care can created a very wise mind that will affect every vitrue in a mans life.
Therefore I would like to share that aspect and much more with the world. I have a lot more other views which then make my life sort of a poem that has verses, harmony e.t.c be it be love life, politics, philosophy, the neighbours loud dogs, the inquisitive post man, the boss with a prying eye and so on.
So please go ahead and come on board and join me in this clickty cluck world of blogging so we can have some fun.
Poeticsilence
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